Quit Smoking :)

A  common addiction mostly accepted with a frown. Yet it is an addiction. What makes smoking so unbearable is, it makes your family, friends and team workers a passive smokers. This one single reason is good enough to make you think..Smoking is injurious to your loved ones..and its you who is giving them this slow poison.

photolibrary_rf_photo_of_cigarette_butts_in_ashtray so how do you know its the last one..that you crushed.

You don’t..that is why you need all effort from yourself and others to pull you away from this visible fire..burning you down with others.

getty_rm_photo_of_glowing_tip_of_cigarette the time you smoke..you are using it for getting mind off an issue or trying to focus on something, in both instances it makes you so weak that ..its a need rather a want. That is why..smokers want to just get one more drag..

artlife_rf_photo_of_woman_eating_celery Yep..a cucumber can be a good replacement ..doesn’t burn and is healthy too.

jiu_rf_photo_of_woman_holding_money_jar You need to save all those cash ..in a visible jar..to make you realize that ..smoking is expensive and dangerous.

So..try  not to pick the first cigarette to your lips..you never can tell how long it will stick .and make your  life at risk..Be happy ..Don’t Smoke 🙂 Please

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Self Control

Self control 🙂 Something I never did..because there was and is someone who controls me 🙂 I give in..because I am the youngest in the family so tend to be a meek person..always dependent on others.

Before marriage, my parents  and grandparents would be in control and now it seems, my husband controls my actions.

I never revolted, basically because I knew they were right…I like it this way..there is freedom with limitations and I never make wrong decisions..because no one ask me ..they always tell me..I am a follower..but a bit tricky..I make them believe that it’s their idea and I initiate all ideas..ah! Now who controls.. I , myself..I control 🙂

Advice From A Divorced Man

very sincerely written advice..superb

great advice from Gerald Rogers via Huffington Post:

Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had…

1) Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love…

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