which one is you?

We remain a child in our heart..unless a tragedy robs that innocence and naughtiness ..that nick to tease and blurt..it is good to be happy …we remain naughty forever in life.
Sweet and naughty drives you crazy…and arrogance with naughty brings you tears, Crafty and naughty makes you scared ..and naughty with naughty is an affair 🙂
Playfully naughty is desired by most..others are lost ..this one we boast.


I am me , can you find do you see?

I sit down 🙂
I look pretty much like myself
I reply..even after 4 months
I am friendly..when I am around 🙂
I am absent…because I got a life in real
Yep 🙂
I answer..but not always what you expect.

want to know

Discover Me… You want to know me? Then you have to understand me..My mind. my mood..my thoughts and my intentions too.
You want to open me ? Did you bring a hammer to bash me open, or fingers to untie the knot..or words to enter my head..You want to challenge me? What did you prepare..a question or a riddle..or perhaps a million dollar invention…
You want to befriend me :))) just your loving heart and broad mind..that is all we need..for friends are for all times..no need to understand just be as you are and feel free..its not a captivity..its not a deal..no trade..no exchange..just me and you..bring yourself..and I am here for you :)))

Men are smart and others are smarter

Men in general…are good at geography..they appreciate the topography and adjust to volumes and depths…measuring calculating..evaluating ..and they remember ..each move and curve..smart men are very much enjoyable…smarter ones are more desirable ?
Men are normally in competition , sometimes we women others with men..some how one feat done next to be conquered. One assignment completed another to be sought, award or reward there is no end. Women are also doing same perhaps..but I have seen men ..of course not all ..just few..but those I did were like smart and more smarter 🙂

Learn ..by doing or reading

Learning is an ongoing process, never a product as a degree or  an award. Recognition is for achievements when we use our knowledge and expertise to test, and get an applause from within hearts and mind , as others watch us get the job done.

We, learn from other’s mistakes to avoid making our set of mistakes, yet from time to time, we really want to risk. why 🙂 because we think we can get it done without failing. We, want to try with new techniques, approaches and methods in solving the same problem. We, get frustrated when new problems arrives, or we get entangled in multi-tier confusions , when a single solution triggers many hidden issues.

Still, we try..when we are passionate to our goal or cause, we want to achieve and get the result as desired. In this struggle, we actually make other’s realize and identify those mistakes that we made, and could have been avoided. Well, this is actually intelligent because you evaluate your potentials and weigh it against the problem or issues.

In all cases, we are still learning ..are we enjoying too 🙂 that depends how many times you broke your self respect and deflated your trust in your self..only our inner voice can make us hear or you would become deaf …. so use your potential, learn and experience ..but try not to repeat your mistakes .. too many would make you a ” mistake”

Ladies value your catch ;)

Discover the REAL reasons a man falls in love… to the point where he feels he HAS to have you – and only YOU 🙂

Now that is hard..he may fall for you but “Only you” is rather  hard for the  poor fella.he  is liberal and got a loving heart..he is sure he can love  many..including you and others..can you accept that:)

The ONLY way to truly connect with a man’s heart (it’s not what you think…) It is what he thinks ..and mind you..in a man’s mind..things are a bit complicated..what he wants ..he seldom puts it into words..you have to vigilantly watch his moves..like a detective story…without  commenting.Then he always write in between the lines with invisible  ink..so you got to think..what he likes in the posted link.

The specific words and body language that instantly compel a man to get closer to you . You have to be a specialist..in reading  his instant swinging moods.. the voltage high likes and dislike..if you can not read his mind..he will escape your trap.

How to keep a man from withdrawing and becoming distant . This one is easy..STOP nagging.. Don’t complain .if he ignores you.. Stay cool..if he never looks towards you and is glued to the wrestlemania .Give him space..and keep some space for him..beside you :))

How to get his attention and make him see you as the prize he needs to pursue . Be smart, not needy and  just have your own life..he may drop by..that time leave everything and focus on him..He will think of you as a very special person..because.” you never make him an essential part of your life in real

A simple shift that makes you magnetically attractive to a man and sets you apart from other women.. you have decided to ignore him and have your own life..it certainly works 😉

Men are  men..and  ladies..please treat them with care..they  like to be loved and patted..pampered and showered with praise..but..be  careful not to make it  obvious ..they also got a hidden side..yep EGO 🙂